A sexual phobia is a fear or anxiety of some kind that impacts your ability to become aroused. The phobia can be specific, for example, you will not touch your partner's penis. Alternatively, it may be more general, such as an aversion to any kind of foreplay.
Sexual phobias are sometimes related to earlier traumatic experiences, but by no means always.
As a sex therapist, I help you overcome your sexual fear at a rate that feels comfortable to you, and develop an enjoyable sexual relationship.